Do I get my own room? You and your children will be able to share a room. If there is no one else in the Transition House, you may be able to have a room to your self. The rooms are quite large, and have closets, dressers, and all the bedding you need.

How much will it cost? There is no cost for your stay. Food, shelter, and laundry facilities are free. You will need your own spending money for cigarettes, diapers, personal hygiene items, etc.

Can I leave the Transition House when I want to? YES. This is your home while you are staying there. For safety reasons, the staff will ask when you are expected back, and if there is a contact person where you can be reached.

If I return to my relationship, can I ever come back to the Transition House? Yes, most definitely. Sometimes it takes many times of leaving before a relationship ends, or heals. You can come back, or leave, as often as you need to.

Do I have to tell the police about the abuse, if I come to the Transition House? No. We will encourage you to speak with an officer, and if you need assistance in making the call, or someone by your side while you speak with an officer, our staff are able and willing to do that. But they will not insist that you call the RCMP. Only YOU know what is best for you, and if you are uncertain, your stay at the Transition House may help you to sort out what your next steps are. There is no rush.

If I call the Transition House do I have to leave my name? No, nor do you have to come to the transition house if you don't want to. Telephone support is there for you when you need it, without any obligations on your part.

Can I bring my pet? We sure wish you could, but you can't. There are too many other considerations; allergies, other resident's children, etc. We suggest that you have a trusted friend care for your pet in their own home, or have your pet boarded at one of the local kennels. They will need proof that your pet is vaccinated.

Who will know if I'm at the Transition House? You, and anyone else you tell, and the staff person on duty. The only reason a staff person may tell someone else, is if you give them permission to do so, or if the staff person thinks you will cause harm to yourself or others.

What kind of food is there? We keep the fridge and cupboards stocked with typical favourites; cereals, breads, pastas, etc. When you come to live there, you will be able to help with decisions about meals, your preferences, allergies, etc.

What do I need to bring with me? If you have time to organize some things, we suggest whatever you can bring from this list: - Your driver's license, or ID - Birth certificate(s) - Money, cheque book, credit cards - Lease, rental agreement, or deed to your home - Bank book, bank statement - House keys, car keys - Social insurance card (or memorize your number) - Address book, and favourite phone numbers - Care card, medications, medical records - Marriage license, divorce papers - Passport - Immigration papers

How long can I stay? Most people stay about 30 days. They find that this is enough time to make plans, sort thing out, and begin next steps. You may need less, you may need a bit more. You will be supported in whatever decision you feel is best for you.

How safe IS it? We have a video-door bell, so that all visitors to the Transition House can be seen by those inside, before letting them in. The House is also always locked, with an alarm activated in case anyone tries to break the lock. The Transition House is also right across the street from the RCMP detachment, and someone can be at the premises within moments, if there is an incident.

Will there be someone there to talk to? Yes. 24 hours a day. There is a day shift, afternoon shift, and night shift. All workers have been specially trained in this support work, and you are their first priority. NOT to give advice, or to judge your actions, but to Listen. Just listen and be there.

What is there for children in the Transition House? We have a resident child care worker, a well stocked play room, and a play area in the back yard. We will not 'take over' your role as a parent; instead we take your lead in helping us help your child through this confusing time.